How to Flirt
Flirting is defined as ‘the expression of sexuality, where one person indicates a sexual interest in another’. However, while the definition is simple, the art of flirting is definitely not. When you flirt with a lady, there is a thin line between obscene and exciting. Crossing this line could have the opposite result than the one desired. The obvious question now is ‘how to flirt well?’

There is no one right answer here because how you flirt will depend majorly on the ladies personality and desires. Sometimes, you may flirt in order to move toward a first date, while at another the flirting maybe with a long-term partner and imply moving toward the bedroom instead. Indeed, the intention of the flirting will also influence the line that you should take.

There are a few tips though that can work very well in deciding the line you want to take.

Witty – Keep your lines witty. If you offer a drab conversation, the ladies are bound to look away. Puns are a huge hit with flirting as are sexual connotations. Play with words and maintain the tempo of the humor because this will help the lady to drop her amour and expose herself to you more freely.
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Does Size Really Matter?

Introduction – Does the size of a man’s penis affect his performance in bed?  Do women desire a large penis or not?   The answers to these questions will help in making your sex life better.  This is a  look into what women have to say about the size of the penis.

WOMEN HAVE BEEN TALKING… MAYBE EVEN ABOUT YOU!

Men often tend to give excuses for releasing too soon.   Some of the common excuses given and believed by men are discussed in the article.   It is important that rather than looking for excuses men educate themselves about how to prevent these PE episodes (premature ejaculation) and increase their sexual stamina.

How to Flirt Spontaneous

To really understand the art of flirting, here are a few other tips designed to help you experience the joy and playful  sensuality within the art of yin and yang. This art envoks the hard and soft, the hot and cold or fire and ice that is within each of us… these are the elements that create steam and passion in any relationship.

• New lines – There are a few obvious beaten paths that have become quite mundane. Steer clear of these. Not only are these flirting styles stale but they also indicate to the ladies that you are not enterprising.
• Don’t mimic – Every person has his/ her own personality and your style of flirting must be in keeping with your unique personality. Do not copy another person’s style; create your own lines and signals. Women respond well to genuine people, so do not attempt to build a relationship based on fake words.
• Praise – Women love to get praised so focus on their strong points. Keep the praise genuine; don’t say shallow stuff that is likely to irritate the lady. So don’t tell a lady she has awesome skin, if she has broken out into an acne rash.
• Tease- Teasing constitutes a large part of flirting. Often men will say something bordering on the lines of teasing and the lady will respond with a similar intensity. So learn to tease gently because some ladies love this angle.

While the above listed pointers are a good base for flirting, they are definitely not written in stone.

Flirting is quite a healthy activity. Not only does it let you laugh and express your interest in the ladies but it is also a wonderful way to bring in playfulness into the interaction.

Sexual games do much more than enhance your orgasm.  They can help you and your partner communicate and get over serious relationship issues.  You can learn to love and trust your partner in many more ways by opening your mind to these fantastic sexual activities.   A few tips in this arena are discussed in this article. 

PUTTING BACK THE “PLAY” IN FOREPLAY:  SEXUAL GAMES FOR LOVERS

Couples and intimate friends often times use sexual games as a way to build their sexual repertoire as well as create a means for open communication and dialogue.  This article will inform you of some of the seductive and tantalizing games out there for your enjoyment, or at least give you a reminder of some of those favorites from the past and inspire you to play them again!

Truth or Dare:  Awww….one of the classics, and a great way to learn more about your partner, or partners.  To play, two or more people are needed, and each player gets a turn to pick either TRUTH or DARE.  If one should chose truth, the other player (or players) can use their vivid imagination to ask the first player a personal and telling question about themselves, usually sexual in nature.  Questions can range from “What is your favorite sexual fantasy?” to “Do you have any sexual fetishes?”  If the player on the spot decides to forego answering the question, a DARE is in order.  Some fun ideas for dares are striptease and lap dance.

Naked Twister:  Remember this game from your youth?  The one that had you and your friends intertwining your contorted bodies like a collection of human pretzels all for the sake of making sure your right hand landed on green and your left leg was on yellow?  And just about each round was concluded in everyone toppling over in hysterical leaps of laughter?  Well, it’s time to pull the old game out of the closet, brush off the cobwebs, and now play it in the nude with a loved one (or in some cases, loved ones).  Spin the wheel, and let your crazy, pliable limbs land wherever the little red arrow indicates them to go.  Just don’t poke someone’s eye out, or fall over and lose the game.  Also, if you’re playing to win, or you just want to do this for fun, you can distract your lover by kissing, tickling, lovingly biting, licking, nuzzling, or brushing up against them.  To increase your sexual stamina be sure to visit: www.buildingyoursexualstamina.com/member to learn how to be the life of your next sexual encounter.

Sexy Board Games:  There are different ways you can go about this.  One of them is to take a regular board game like Monopoly and change the rules.  Add sexual content:  rewards, penalties, stripping, sexual favors, and whatever you and your partner might find fun and exciting.  Personalizing it is all part of the fun!  Another way to go is to buy a sexual board game someone already created.  These can be found just about everywhere around Valentine’s Day, but you can still find them somewhere the rest of the year.  And lastly, you can create your own sexual board game from scratch using your own dice, homemade cards, body parts, and creativity.

Role Playing or Fantasy Games:  This is a great way to go because your imagination can run wild.  You and your partner can discuss your greatest fantasies and put them into action. You can create various scenes, situations, characters, etc.  Blindfolds, silk scarves, roses, costumes, lingerie, chocolate, erotic foods, fragrances, and other props may be needed.

Pick a Fantasy From a Hat:  This is actually a great game to play in order to diffuse arguments.  You and your partner think up things you’d like the other to do to you sexually or sensually.  Each idea you and your partner have, write it down on a little piece of paper.  Keep all these little pieces of paper somewhere special where you can easily pull them out.  Now, anytime one of you starts an argument or has been a little less than kind to the other, the wounded party gets to take out all their little pieces of paper and put them in a hat.    The other partner closes their eyes, chooses from the sea of fantasies, pulls out one of the papers, and makes their loved one’s sexual desire a reality!

Have fun!
Walter Beckley
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TO UNDERSTAND WHAT WOMEN WANT WHEN IT COMES TO SEX AND INTIMACY

Men generally make quite a lot of  noise on the subject of pleasing and pleasuring women when it comes to sexual penetration and intimacy.  “It can’t be done,” decries the frustrated male.   “It’s impossible to understand them,” another says in resignation.   However, the fact of the matter is that there is no great mystery to “penetrate”, so to speak:  although male and female have a different physiological make up, they each have a similar nervous system which gets off on the same feel-good chemicals (like dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin).   These are the same chemicals that are involved in the rewarding of certain behaviors as well as establishing addictions in people.

This information is generally not enough to cure those suffering from sexual impotence, and so to delve into this problem and dig it up by its root, we must investigate the complex relationship between male and female in detail.   For anyone who is suffering from sexual anxiety, erectile dysfunction, or any other related psycho-sexual diseases, there is much that you can do and learn to improve your situation.   Although a large portion of sexual activity is obviously physical, there are many facets of the sex act which range from the psychological, to the perverted, to the heights of transcendence and spirituality.    If you wish to open yourself up to the possibility of being nothing short of a sex god, first you must open your heart and mind!

The first thing you need to get straight is that each woman is a unique and beautiful goddess in her own right, capable of doing something that no man can: creating an entirely new life form. Each and every woman deserves respect, in the bed or on the streets, and no amount of rationalization or cultural insensitivity can be used as an excuse to disregard this knowledge. Every woman has her own tastes, desires, dreams, and sexual fantasies which you should explore together.  Finding out what turns each other on is generally half the fun!

In any intimate relationship, honest communication is absolutely essential, because without this factor no growth is possible; there is no chance for learning and becoming.  Deep down union is what all of us desire, whether it appears in the form of another person or in some sort of abstract ideal.  In fact, it is even said that sex is the basis for all genius as well as elevation of the spirit, in some form or another.  Unfortunately, instead of sailing freely on the amorous wings of a loving relationship, most people condemn themselves to live in an un-erotic void of slavery to culturally acceptable values and moral systems.

Ask yourself, “Why is there so much fear and guilt surrounding the sex act?  Why is there so much secrecy, why so many perversions, fetishes, and psychological disorders?”   It is not because man and woman are two distinct species which are alien to each other, incapable of knowing and satisfying one another.  No, rather, the problem lies in fear: all performance fears stem from the fact that the opposite sex generally represents the unknown, the unconscious, and the other…

Instead of being afraid of the unknown, try exploring it!  Investigate with lustful efficiency every square inch of yourself and your partner and grow to love each and every cell within yourself.  Find a sense of religion within her beauty and feminine essence.  True love and intimacy knows no bounds, and as is said in many Eastern philosophies, “The two become one.” In the words of a more Western and Abrahamic tone and world-view, “…And the two will become one flesh; so that they are no longer two, but one flesh.”

Indeed, explore not just body but also mind, soul, and spirit.  See for yourself what the venerable Taoist masters and teachers have to say on the topic of sexuality, try out all manner of different techniques.  Some say Tantric sex is the gate to the Garden of Eden, to immortality and a life free of disease.  There are plenty of books, articles, and teachers who talk and instruct on this subject.  Most of all, don’t reduce sex into merely a biological mechanism for propagating the species, or a way to release excess energies in carnal desire.  Be free, in truth and in love.

By
Walter Beckley